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On-premise Club

Leisure Time Club is an on-premise lifestyle club located in Hartford, Connecticut, which identifies itself as the longest-running swingers club in the United States. The club operates a membership program and maintains a regular event calendar. The venue emphasizes a welcoming and health-conscious environment for its members.

Power Exchange

San Francisco, CA

On-premise Pansexual Sex Club

Power Exchange is a pansexual adult nightclub in San Francisco that has operated since 1996, offering BDSM, kink, and alternative lifestyle events in a private setting. The venue is open Thursday through Sunday nights and emphasizes a safe, inclusive, and discreet environment. It accepts cash payment with an ATM available on-site.

Stopgap

San Francisco, CA

Kink Venue / Play Space

Stopgap is a kink venue and event organizer in San Francisco occupying a building with historical significance as the former home of the SF Citadel. The space includes a fully accessible first floor with social and play areas, plus a 3,100 square-foot basement equipped with BDSM equipment including crosses, benches, and suspension rigging. Monthly House Party events are held on the first Friday of each month.

On-Premise Private Members-Only Nightclub

Club Tempted is a members-only private lifestyle nightclub in Louisville, Kentucky. Membership is offered in four tiers — Onyx, Crystal, Ruby, and Diamond — each providing different levels of access and complimentary event entry. The club also coordinates lifestyle travel experiences including cruises and resort getaways to destinations such as Cancun and Puerto Morelos.

On-premise Club

The X Club is a lifestyle nightclub in Mississauga, Ontario, operating Friday and Saturday nights from 9 PM to 3 AM. The venue offers a dance floor, VIP bottle service, and multiple themed areas, with Saturdays reserved exclusively for couples and single women. Members must be 21 or older; a Newbie Night runs on the first Friday of each month with no membership required.

On-premise Club

Electricity Social Club is a members-only lifestyle venue housed in a historic industrial loft at 122 Manton Avenue in Providence, Rhode Island. The BYOB club features a dance floor, multiple playrooms, a dungeon, and a smoking lounge, open Friday and Saturday from 9 PM to 2 AM and Sundays from 8 PM to 1 AM. Annual memberships start at $40 for singles and $60 for couples.

House Party

The Playground is a weekly lifestyle venue in Providence, Rhode Island, offering a safe, fun environment for open-minded adults. The space is operated by BBadd Entertainment and hosts regular events for couples and singles in the lifestyle.

Alternative Lifestyle Community Center / Kink & Comedy Club

Alaska Club Kink is a community-focused kink and social club in Anchorage offering weekly events including Mystery Munch dinners, movie nights, game nights, rope jams, and workshops, plus a Friday open-mic comedy and karaoke night. Membership sign-up is free.

Kink/BDSM Club

DC's only private kink club. Non-profit 501(c)7. Nearly two decades. Hosts Black Rose events.

Club Labyrinth NYC

New York, NY

On-premise Club

Club Labyrinth is a members-only swingers club in Midtown Manhattan, open Wednesday through Saturday. The venue features a group playroom, semi-private areas, voyeur room, blackout room, video lounge, and a BYOB bar with complimentary non-alcoholic beverages. Couples must arrive and leave together; single males require photo verification or sponsorship by a member couple.

On-premise lifestyle club

Club 101 is an on-premise adult lifestyle club located at 101 Avondale Drive in Dayton, Ohio. The venue hosts events for verified adults 18 and over. Contact the club at (937) 315-0110 for event schedule and details.

Top Floor Club

New York, NY

Curated Play Party

Top Floor is an invitation-only erotic play party community based in New York City, operating from a two-floor penthouse with monitored play suites, a phone-free dance floor, and a dedicated aftercare lounge. Events include the Signature Weekend, MARKED (kink-focused), and BI SENSUAL gatherings, each staffed by trained consent guardians. STI testing within three months is required for all members, and a consent orientation is conducted at each event.

Event Organizer

The Pendulum Society is a members-only adult lifestyle and kink club based in the Vancouver, British Columbia area, open to adults 19 and older. The venue features themed parties, semi-private playrooms, a saltwater inground pool, and a dungeon space with equipment, and also offers private event rentals and photo or video shoot bookings. All events are consent-based and inclusive of all genders and sexual orientations; sexual activity is never guaranteed.

Events + Studio Rental

PLUR Productions is a sex-positive event production company based in Vancouver, British Columbia, serving the LGBTQ+, swinger, kink, and burner communities under the ethos of peace, love, unity, and respect. Monthly themed events and bi-monthly meet-and-mingle nights are held at various venues, with clearly marked play areas, on-site consent staff called Cupids, and complimentary safer-sex supplies provided. Membership is required for entry; the club is open to all orientations and gender identities at identical admission rates for adults 19 and older.

BDSM/Alternative Lifestyle Social Club & Advocacy Organization

The Red Chair is a nonprofit BDSM and alternative lifestyle club and educational organization based in Birmingham, Alabama, serving the Central Alabama community. Established as Alabama's oldest organization of its kind, it operates as a 501(c) nonprofit and hosts educational seminars, classes, group discussions, and regular events. The club is inclusive of all sexual orientations and consensual relationship styles, and is a coalition partner of the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom.

Private Residence/Dungeon

Braven Manor is an adult club in Burnaby, British Columbia, focused on BDSM, kink, fetish, and swinging in a community-oriented, sex-positive environment. The venue hosts rotating themed events covering BDSM, swinging, and group play, and offers space rental for private bookings. Membership signup is free, and the club acknowledges its location on the unceded territories of the Musqueam, Squamish, and Tsleil-Waututh Nations.

BDSM/Lifestyle community center

On-premise Bathhouse/Club

X Club Winnipeg is an adult lifestyle and social club spanning over 10,000 square feet across three floors at its Winnipeg, Manitoba location. The facility includes multiple play rooms, a hot tub room, sauna, steam room, and a range of locker and private room rentals priced per visit. Annual membership is available for couples and solo members and provides room reservations, event discounts, and reduced room rates.

Lifestyle Playground

Denver, CO

Private Event Series / Hotel Takeovers

Lifestyle Playground is a private lifestyle event organization based in Colorado, hosting events in Denver, Colorado Springs, and Thornton. The group offers a range of gatherings from casual coffee meetups to full hotel takeovers with themed rooms, as well as workshops on sexual wellness. The community is inclusive of ENM, polyamory, swinging, LGBTQ+, and BDSM members, and access requires a membership application.

On-premise Club

The Korral is a members-only on-premise lifestyle club on a private property in Spring Grove, Pennsylvania, featuring a seasonal pool, hot tubs, playrooms with fresh linens, a dance floor, bar, and overnight private stay rooms. Monthly kink nights include educational demonstrations, and themed seasonal events run throughout the year. Single men must be sponsored by a current member couple and may only attend their first visit with their sponsor.

On-premise Club

The Velvet Rope is an on-premise lifestyle club in Portland, Oregon, offering a private, upscale environment for couples and select singles.

Nightshade Halifax

Halifax, Nova Scotia

Event Series

Nightshade Halifax is a kink-themed costume party event series operating in downtown Halifax, Nova Scotia, since February 2013. Events feature DJ-driven dance music, a BDSM play area with bondage furniture overseen by trained dungeon monitors, and professional photography. Costumes are encouraged but not required, and personal cameras are prohibited; the series is open to all types of adults, including those new to alternative lifestyles.

BDSM/Kink Community Center & Private Social Club

VooDoo Leatherworks is a private members-only social club and community center for Colorado Springs' BDSM and alternative lifestyle community. The venue features over 3,000 square feet of play space with 15 play stations, suspension hard points, and regular dungeon parties, alongside educational classes, art shows, and community events. The organization is volunteer-led, 18+, and explicitly inclusive of LGBTQAI+ and ethically non-monogamous members; the space is also available for private and nonprofit event rentals.

Illuminaughty (San Francisco)

San Francisco, CA

Curated Private Members Club / Event Organizer

Illuminaughty San Francisco is the Bay Area chapter of the national Illuminaughty members-only lifestyle event network, which has operated across more than 40 U.S. cities since 2022. Events are held at private venues and require an approved membership application to attend. Members receive access to a mobile app, a referral program, and regional and national event calendars.

Auberge La Passion

Drummondville, Quebec

Resort/Inn

Auberge La Passion is a swingers club (club échangiste) located in Drummondville, Quebec, operating since 2014. The venue offers play rooms with large beds, soft BDSM facilities, private and group spaces, and a bar area for socializing. Events run on Fridays and Saturdays with recurring themed nights; couples and curious individuals are welcome, with a dress code requiring at minimum city attire.

Goth/Fetish Nightclub

Fallout RVA is an alternative nightclub located at 117 N 18th Street in Richmond, Virginia, focused on goth, industrial, drag, and electronic music communities. The venue hosts a rotating calendar of events including drag shows, DJ nights, karaoke, movie nights, and community socials, with most events open to guests 18 or 21 and older. It operates Sunday through Thursday until midnight and Friday through Saturday until 2am.

CKJ Studio (Club Kink Jax)

Jacksonville, FL

On-premise Lifestyle/Fetish

CKJ Studio (Club Kink Jax) is a private members-only lifestyle club in Jacksonville, Florida, serving the kink, fetish, BDSM, swinger, LGBTQ+, and polyamorous communities with a strict 21-and-older requirement. The venue hosts themed nights, workshops, educational sessions, burlesque performances, and shibari experiences on Wednesdays, Fridays, and Saturdays. The club also organizes the annual Fet-Fest Expo, a regional lifestyle convention.

On-premise Club

The Phoenix is a private erotic social club in Ottawa offering weekly events including play nights on Mondays, BDSM/kink nights on Fridays, Swinger Saturdays, and inclusive bi/queer nights. The venue welcomes couples, singles, and all gender identities, and is also available for private party rentals.

Shrine Austin

Austin, TX

Monthly BDSM/Kink Play Party

Shrine is a lifestyle event series in Austin, Texas, hosting themed parties and social gatherings for open-minded adults.

Event Organizer / Hotel Takeover

Intimate Parties Group (IPG) is a lifestyle event organizer based in New York, hosting hotel takeover events primarily across the Northeast including New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, and New England. Events accommodate 150 to 200 couples, feature themed rooms, dance floors with DJs, indoor heated pools, and finger food, with a strict BYOB policy. Attendance is limited to couples and unescorted women aged 21 and older; a no-photography policy is enforced.

The Warehouse

Meridian, ID

Private Kink & Lifestyle Social Club

The Warehouse is a members-only kink and swinger social club operating in the Boise, Idaho area, registered as a 501(c)(3) nonprofit. It hosts themed events including Debauchery Nights for mixed kink and swinger play and Pineapple Nights focused on swinging, with a wristband color system indicating attendee preferences. The club is BYOB, requires member vetting before attendance, and features equipment including suspension rigs, an impact bench, and a fire and wax room.

On-premise house party

Club Chameleon hosts swingers house parties in the Flint, Michigan area across a 3.5-floor venue with two bars, a dance floor, multiple playrooms, a hot tub, and a bonfire pit. Themed events include food, drinks, and prizes in a no-pressure BYOB environment welcoming to newcomers. Overnight accommodations are available.

Event Organizer

Dark Odyssey is an event organization producing immersive multi-day lifestyle and kink festivals across the US. Flagship events include Winter Fire (luxury hotel takeover in Baltimore), Fusion (summer sex + kink + spirit festival in Northern Maryland), Summer Camp (Labor Day weekend camp experience), and Surrender (Bay Area/San Jose). Festivals bring together kinksters, queers, swingers, and spiritualists for intensive weekends of exploration, education, and play.

On-premise Club

Baltimore Playhouse

Baltimore, MD

On-premise Kink Club

Baltimore Playhouse is a non-profit BDSM and kink community space in Baltimore, Maryland, operating since 1997 and spanning 12,000 square feet — one of the largest known play spaces of its kind in the United States. The venue is alcohol- and drug-free, requires RSVP, and has a capacity of 250 per event. Educational programming for newcomers, annual contributorships, and NCSF affiliation are central to its community model.

BDSM/Kink Club (Non-profit)

On-premise lifestyle club

Club Princeton is a private members' lifestyle club located at 425 South Princeton Avenue in Columbus, Ohio. The venue requires membership login for event details and access. Contact the club directly at 614-275-9861 for information.

On-Premise Private Lifestyle Club

Forbidden Omaha is a theme-centric lifestyle club and Nebraska's self-described premier lifestyle venue. The club hosts meet-and-greets and special events in a welcoming environment for open-minded adults, currently operating under new ownership with hours from 9 PM to 2 AM.

Vixxxins Lifestyle Club

Phoenix, AZ

Private Members Club / Event Series

Vixxxins Lifestyle Club is a private members-only lifestyle and kink event organization based in the Phoenix, Arizona area. The club hosts themed underground galas, upscale house parties, exclusive dinners, and meet-and-greets at varied venues including private residences and event spaces. The organization also offers educational content through its "Madame's Memoirs" series and personal event planning services.

On-premise Club

Club Red Door is a private adult lifestyle club located in Gastonia, North Carolina, near Charlotte off I-85. The venue features five themed rooms including a theater and dungeon space, with BYOB beer and wine permitted and doors open Friday and Saturday nights. Couples and single women are welcome; single men require prior approval via message.

On-premise lifestyle club

KC Book Club is a lifestyle social group in Kansas City, Missouri, hosting events and gatherings for open-minded adults in the metro area.

On-premise Spa/Club

Oasis Aqualounge is a clothing-optional, water-themed private members club for adults 19 and over, located in a restored 19th-century mansion in downtown Toronto. The venue features a year-round heated outdoor pool, hot tub, sauna, two bars, and play areas spanning four floors. Solo men are admitted Sunday through Thursday; Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for women and couples only.

Infliction Hall

Euless, TX

BDSM Dungeon / Fetish Club

Infliction Hall is a BDSM and adult lifestyle club in the Dallas-Fort Worth area of Texas, offering VIP and Platinum membership tiers. The venue hosts regular themed events including rope play nights, educational workshops in partnership with organizations such as the Texas Rope Group, and costume parties. Events typically run from 8 PM to 3 AM on weekends.

Club Labyrinth LA (Hollywood)

Hollywood, CA

On-premise Club

Club Labyrinth LA is an on-premise swingers and kink club set in a private Hollywood building, welcoming couples, single women, and single men. The venue offers group playrooms, semi-private areas, lounge spaces, and a refreshment bar; condoms, lubricant, and towels are provided. The club operates BYOB with a one-bottle limit and, as of early 2025, is temporarily closed while relocating to a new location.

Event Organizer - Kink & Alt-Sex Parties

AfterDark is a San Francisco Bay Area event organizer serving kink and alternative sexuality communities, with events held across San Francisco and Oakland. The organization produces adult lifestyle gatherings for those interested in kink and alt-sex experiences.

Naughty Revival

Minneapolis, MN

Hotel takeover event organizer (kink/lifestyle)

Naughty Revival is a Minneapolis-area lifestyle event organizer that runs two-night hotel takeover experiences for adult couples and open-minded singles. The events are ticketed and periodic rather than held at a fixed venue. The organization also lists travel and resort partnership opportunities for members.