25 clubs
Destination lifestyle resorts with overnight stays, pools, and full resort amenities — perfect for couples getaways and multi-day events.
As of 2026, there are 25 resorts lifestyle clubs across the US, Canada, UK & Germany. They span 17 states and provinces, with the most in FL (4), TX (2), CA (2), TN (2), MN (2). 24 are currently verified as active.

Scottsdale, AZ
Lifestyle Resort
LUXX Parties is a Scottsdale, Arizona-based lifestyle event company that produces recurring multi-day parties for open-minded couples and single women rather than operating one fixed venue. Events rotate across partner hotels and resorts — including Hotel Adeline and The Monarch in Scottsdale and the Nautical Beachfront Resort in Lake Havasu City — and, through an affiliated brand called TRYST, extend to full resort takeovers at Temptation Resort in Cancún, Mexico. Each takeover pairs daytime pool parties with nighttime themed events and DJ sets over several days. Host venues supply VIP cabanas and daybeds with bottle service, on-site licensed bars and restaurants, and, at the Lake Havasu event, boat rentals. Nightly themes come with suggested attire, from 1920s speakeasy looks to glow-rave and candy-colored styles. Attendance requires a paid annual LUXX membership — $39.99 for Standard or $69.99 for Elite, capped at 2,500 members and 100 Elite slots a year — bought separately from event tickets and hotel rooms; couples memberships were discontinued in 2023, so partners now register individually. Entry is restricted to those 21 and older with valid photo ID, subject to a security search, and tickets are non-refundable. Host resorts bill their own daily resort fee, roughly $15–29, separately at check-in. No single-male ticket tier is currently advertised.
Houston, TX
Lifestyle Resort
Set on a sprawling 10-acre estate in Houston, Texas, Oasis Estate Luxury Resort and Spa is an all-inclusive lifestyle retreat that trades the passport for a private estate experience. The property promises a range that swings from black-tie formal dinners and exclusive entertainment to lively poolside parties and nightlife — all within the same screened, members-only grounds. Every guest is vetted through a membership application before attending; once approved, members access tickets, spa reservations, and a social network through the private online portal. Dining is central to the Oasis Estate experience. An executive chef prepares intimate formal dinner parties with 4- and 5-course meals described as on par with any fine-dining restaurant. Beyond the table, approved members can schedule spa services, attend themed weekend events like the Memorial Day Weekend Poolside Bash, and connect with other members through the resort social network. Entry requires prior membership approval — no walk-in access is available. The exact address is never publicly disclosed and is provided only upon approval, making privacy a core feature of the offering. The resort welcomes couples, single females, and single males, powered by the Modern Lifestyle platform alongside partner sites including Kasidie and SDC.

Land O' Lakes, FL
Lifestyle Resort
Set on a gated, palm-fringed property in Land O' Lakes just north of Tampa, Caliente Club & Resorts bills itself as the most luxurious, adults-only, clothing-optional experience around, welcoming both newcomers curious about going nude and seasoned regulars alike. The grounds center on five pools, including a quarter-acre lagoon pool with a waterfall and two islands, plus a hot tub, sports and fitness facilities, and the on-site Retreat Spa offering wraps, facials, manicures, pedicures, and hydrotherapy. Guests stay in condominiums, casitas, or hotel rooms and can dine at a full-service restaurant with an executive chef or go casual at the sports bar. The resort runs on a members-only model: because it operates clothing-optional in the U.S., visitors must hold a Daily or Annual/Vacation Club membership to enter, and everyone 21 and older must present valid government ID at the gate. Attire is optional almost everywhere except the gym, and cameras are barred for unauthorized guests - photos require a security staff member present. A private security team is on-site 24/7, cash is not accepted for purchases (credit cards or a prepaid Cash Card only), and free Wi-Fi covers the main clubhouse and poolside areas. Entertainment runs nightly, with a full nightclub, piano bar, and DJ sets, and Saturday nights built around a rotating theme, from body paint to leather and lace. Single males may attend but only via in-person day passes purchased at the gate (available 8am-11pm, capacity-limited), while couples and single females can book online in advance; day passes are open-dated and do not expire.

Kissimmee, FL
Lifestyle Resort
Sprawled across five acres of converted motel buildings on East Irlo Bronson Memorial Highway — minutes from Disney World — Secrets Hideaway Resort & Spa is central Florida's flagship lifestyle destination. The members-only, clothing-optional property holds around 148 individually owned condo-hotel units arranged around a courtyard pool, two hot tubs, a poolside tiki bar and the Club Secret nightclub, which pumps EDM across a two-bar dance floor with a full light-and-sound rig most nights of the week. The main draw is an 8,000-square-foot playroom complex: five windowed private rooms with beds and couches, a large central group-play area, a curtained section with a screening lounge, and a staffed dungeon (Club Swinkster) equipped with spanking benches, bondage gear and intro classes for the curious. Playrooms are nude-or-towel only; phones and smartwatches are banned inside. Lockers ($8–$10/night, towels included) sit at the entrance beside a communal shower area. Daytime life revolves around the clothing-optional pool, where DJs spin from late morning onward. A complimentary dinner buffet runs nightly (7:30–10:30 pm), followed by a late-night omelet bar (11:30 pm–3 am) and a breakfast buffet each morning. The crowd spans twenties to sixties, skewing around 40 on weekends, with a mix of couples, single women and single men. Nightly entry fees apply on top of membership — even for hotel guests — and the property is secured by 24-hour on-site security.

Barrie, Ontario
Lifestyle Resort
Sandy Bottoms Resort is a secluded, clothing-optional couples resort in Central Ontario, a few hours from both Toronto and Ottawa. The property features a private lake with a sandy beach, cabins, villas, deluxe rooms, camping, and RV sites in a forested setting. The resort is open to couples and single women only; cameras and recording devices are prohibited on the premises.

Sacramento, CA
Lifestyle Resort
The Suite Life Platinum bills itself as Northern California's ultra-private lifestyle sanctuary, serving the Sacramento area from a location shared only with vetted members. The club traces its roots back roughly thirteen years, when it launched under the name Massage and Play Socials before evolving into its current form. Today it occupies a private venue designed to deliver the buzz of a nightclub alongside the intimacy of a house party — a balance the organizers lean into deliberately, with professional sound, club lighting, laser effects, and a Bluetooth-compatible system that lets members add their own tracks to the mix. The space divides into two distinct zones. The lounge and dance hall handle the social side, giving members room to mingle and move before anything else happens. The play zone runs separately and includes a voyeur/exhibitionist room, a private room, and a couples-only group room. On busier nights the team brings in a live DJ. Outside, a dedicated smoking area and ample free parking round out the practical side of the operation. Membership is by application and pre-screening only, with no walk-ins and no public admittance. Events maintain a roughly even male-to-female ratio, and a limited number of pre-screened single men are permitted at certain events. For those who want to go deeper into the lifestyle travel circuit, the site also curates partner events — from resort takeovers in Cancun and Hedonism II in Jamaica to adults-only cruises — all bookable through the member portal at thesuitelifeplatinum.com.

Hollywood, FL
Nudist Resort
Perched a block from Hollywood Beach's boardwalk, Rooftop Resort bills itself as the only fully clothing-optional hotel in South Florida - nudity is welcome anywhere and everywhere on the property, not just poolside. The 32-room hotel centers on a heated rooftop sky pool and sun deck with panoramic Atlantic Ocean and Intracoastal views, covered by a retractable roof for rain-or-shine use, plus a tiki-style bar, a Scandinavian-style sauna, and a handful of equipped video playrooms for couples. Rooms range from Standard and Deluxe to themed Premier Suites (Purple Passion, Naughty Mermaid, Jeannie in a Bottle), all with 24/7 access to the pool, sauna, and playrooms. Day visitors can drop in daily from 10am to 5pm for pool and amenity access, while the resort's signature Saturday night event runs 9pm to 3am (last entry 1am) with a DJ, dance floor, BYOB setups, and separate group and couples-only playrooms. Weekend hotel stays bundle in event admission, the BYOB bar, and continental breakfast on Saturday and Sunday mornings. The crowd skews toward straight and bi-curious couples and single women, with single men admitted selectively and at a premium rate. Just minutes from clothing-optional Haulover Beach and close to Fort Lauderdale and Miami airports, the resort positions itself as a lifestyle/nudist getaway rather than a full-service resort - reviewers describe an unpretentious, dated-but-functional property where the draw is the rooftop scene and open sexual atmosphere rather than luxury finishes.

Crossville, TN
Lifestyle Resort
Pandora's Resort is a clothing-optional lifestyle resort in Crossville, Tennessee, featuring renovated cabins, chalets, RV sites, a heated pool, hot tub, and on-premise play spaces. The resort hosts themed weekend parties with a nightclub, cafe, and tiki bar, with all amenities open 24/7.

Fort Lauderdale, FL
Lifestyle Resort
Velvet FTL is a private lifestyle club and community platform based in Pompano Beach, Florida, serving the Broward, Miami, and Palm Beach areas. The club provides members access to a physical venue as well as a private online social network, and organizes travel events including resort getaways and themed cruise packages. The venue operates under a stated dress code and positions itself as South Florida's inclusive lifestyle destination.

Minneapolis, MN
Lifestyle Resort
Naughty Revival is a 21-and-over lifestyle and kink event based in the Minneapolis–St. Paul metro area that operates as a periodic hotel takeover rather than a fixed venue: organizers reserve an entire hotel for a private, ticketed weekend roughly once a year. The event traces back to Kinque Social Society, founded in June 2018, which reorganized under the Naughty Revival name for its first event at the Sheraton Bloomington in November 2021, followed by two-night hotel takeovers at the Sheraton Minneapolis West in Minnetonka in subsequent years. Its next takeover is scheduled for December 4–6, 2026, at a hotel disclosed only by email to ticket and room holders. Each takeover converts the reserved hotel into a self-contained event space, with a ballroom dungeon and a pool dungeon outfitted with more than 60 pieces of equipment, four performance stages, classroom space for educational programming, a vendor marketplace, dining areas, and a dedicated swingers' suite, alongside the hotel's own pool, hot tub, sauna and racquetball courts. Outside the on-site bar, restaurants and VIP dining area, clothing is optional throughout the event space, with kink and fetish wear encouraged but street clothes also welcome. Attendance runs upward of 900 guests per event, and both couples and singles of any gender are explicitly welcomed. Doors open at 3:00 PM Friday (1:00 PM for VIP ticket holders), with the event and hotel checkout running through 1:00 PM Sunday. Entry requires a pre-purchased ticket and photo ID for mandatory 21+ verification; general admission runs $165 and VIP $525 per person, with an Ultra VIP two-person suite package at $3,450, and hotel rooms booked and priced separately from admission. House rules ban phones, cameras and recording devices anywhere outside private rooms or a designated phone room, enforce a consent-based stoplight safe-word system, and prohibit illegal drugs and firearms; alcohol is sold at the hotel and venue bars rather than brought in, and smoking is restricted to an area at least 25 feet from any entrance.

Houston, TX
Lifestyle Resort
Tucked into north Houston near the 77073 zip code, XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL) is the area's upscale, members-only lifestyle event centre for open-minded adults drawn from across Texas and Louisiana. The venue runs Thursday through Sunday with Friday and Saturday nights going until 5AM and Sunday wrapping at 3AM, pulling in regulars from Houston, Dallas, Austin, San Antonio, Beaumont, and New Orleans. Membership is required but can be obtained at the door with a valid government-issued photo ID; all guests must be 21 or older. XL is fully cashless and BYOB with on-site mixers available. A live DJ, VIP sections, a dance floor, intimate lounge, showers, and a suite of themed playrooms fill out the space. Dress code is upscale and sexy, with a strict prohibited-items list covering shorts, sneakers, tank tops, and caps. Saturday single-gent entry is limited and requires advance RSVP. The club offers private event hire, affiliate travel packages to Desire and Temptation resorts, and maintains a FetLife community presence. Security cameras cover all public spaces while private areas are excluded. Photography and video require express written approval from management. Consent is core to the culture — non-consensual behaviour results in immediate removal without refund.

Indianapolis, IN
Lifestyle Resort
Reel One sits on the western edge of downtown Indianapolis at 3428 W. Washington St., a members-only on-premise lifestyle club that describes itself as the only female-owned swingers club in the Indianapolis and Central Indiana area. According to the club's own site, it has operated legally at the same location since 1992, making it the longest-running club of its kind in Indiana, and spans three floors and more than 16,000 square feet. The venue includes a bar area (BYOB, no alcohol sold or served), a dance floor with a stripper pole and DJ, a lounge with balconies for public play, a themed "doctor's office" playroom, showers and locker rooms, a pool room, and a large movie/theater room downstairs. Upstairs holds a maze of hallways and roughly a dozen additional playrooms, including one with mirrored ceilings and walls and another furnished with a swing. Entry requires membership or guest status (guests are permitted for their first two visits before membership is required), and all attendees must be 21 or older with valid, non-expired photo ID. The club is open Friday and Saturday nights only, and Saturday overnight stays are offered at no additional cost, with couples and single females given priority for rooms; single men are not permitted overnight rooms on the top floor. No cell phones, smart watches, or recording devices of any kind are allowed inside — phones must go in a locker or be left in a vehicle. A single male member may bring a couple or one guest, but not more than one single male friend. Illegal drugs, weapons, and prostitution are strictly prohibited, and management reserves the right to deny entry or eject anyone at its discretion.

Fawkham, Kent
Nudist Resort
Eureka is a private members naturist club in Kent, open 364 days a year, set across 23 acres of beautiful grounds in England's Garden of England. Facilities include a 60ft heated outdoor swimming pool, two 8-person Jacuzzis, sauna, steam room, a large dance floor seating 180, and on-site accommodation.

London, London
Nudist Resort
London's leading naturist health spa with 20,000 sq ft of purpose-built facilities in Kentish Town. Open 7 days a week with saunas, steam rooms, jacuzzi, swimming pool and relaxation areas — a Kentish Town institution since the 1970s.

Radebeul, Saxony
Lifestyle Resort
Clubhotel Ollywood describes itself as offering "a mix of exclusivity and party," combining comfortable hotel accommodations with adult entertainment and wellness facilities. The venue is an adults-only lifestyle resort near Dresden featuring erotic fashion, entertainment, dining, nightlife activities, and various recreational spaces. Guests enjoy a judgment-free atmosphere where evenings are dedicated to pleasure and relaxation.
Louisville, KY
Lifestyle Resort
Club Tempted is a members-only private lifestyle nightclub in Louisville, Kentucky. Membership is offered in four tiers — Onyx, Crystal, Ruby, and Diamond — each providing different levels of access and complimentary event entry. The club also coordinates lifestyle travel experiences including cruises and resort getaways to destinations such as Cancun and Puerto Morelos.

Hilo, HI
Lifestyle Resort
Hawaii Swingers (hawaiiswingers.net) is an online lifestyle platform rather than a physical club, presenting itself as a hub for the swinger and non-monogamous community across the Hawaiian Islands. It has no fixed address or venue of its own — its identity is built around an events calendar, a directory of other Hawaii-based clubs and meetup groups, and community-oriented copy inviting couples and individuals to explore the lifestyle without judgment. The site functions as an affiliate landing page for the SwingLifeStyle (SLS) personals network and is also cross-listed on Swing Towns, rather than operating as an independent club or membership organization. In practice, the platform aggregates listings rather than hosting anything itself: it advertises parties, meet-and-greets, and hotel takeovers organized by third parties around the islands. "Membership" is a free account signup routed through an SLS affiliate link — there is no venue to enter, no cover charge, dress code, or check-in process. The site's own contact email has gone dark (removed as of 2026-06-30), and current activity levels of the advertised events calendar could not be independently verified beyond the platform's own promotional copy.

Leesville, SC
Lifestyle Resort
Cedar Creek Resort has been South Carolina's go-to clothing-optional getaway since 1989 — 43 wooded acres along Black Creek, about ten minutes south of I-20 between Columbia and Augusta. The property packs in an indoor pool (heated for major event weekends), an outdoor pool, indoor and outdoor hot tubs, nearly half a mile of natural lazy-river creek for tubing, a sand volleyball court, corn hole, petanque, horseshoes, hiking trails through the woods, and a creek-side dock for sunbathing. The clubhouse has a full bar, a pool table, dart board, and hosts DJ dances every Saturday night and karaoke most Fridays year-round. Overnight options run from a cabin with queen bed and full bath to five huts with AC, primitive tent sites near the clubhouse, powered tent sites, and full-hookup RV lots that handle rigs up to 85 feet on 20/30/50 amp service — Passport America and Escapees members get 50% off RV sites outside festival weeks. Day visitors pay $35 off-season or $67 in prime season (April–September plus holiday weekends), and a $25 provisional annual membership is required for all non-members. Single women receive 50% off across the board; student and military couples under 26 get 20% off. Anyone staying past 1 am pays a $21 night fee. The vibe is relaxed and clothing-optional — nudity is welcome but never mandatory, and house rules keep it community-pool appropriate in public areas. Themed parties rotate weekly (Naughty Nautical, Bunny Party, Body Jewelry & Boots, Shakespeare Night) with Nudestock as the big annual summer festival and prime holiday weekends for New Year's, Halloween, Valentine's, and St. Patrick's. The crowd is genuinely diverse in age, shape, and background, and repeat visitors consistently praise the welcoming atmosphere even if the rustic setting won't be mistaken for a luxury resort. Dogs are allowed, the grounds have free WiFi and laundry, and the front office closes at 6 pm (8 pm on event nights).

Shakopee, MN
Lifestyle Resort
MW Euphoria is a Midwest-based lifestyle event organizer and membership community billing itself as "The Midwest's Leading Lifestyle Party." The organization hosts and promotes hotel takeover parties and travel experiences including cruises and resort packages at clothing-optional adult destinations. Events are couples-focused and access requires a paid membership through their online platform.

Fayetteville, NC
Lifestyle Resort
YKW (You Know Where) is a well-known lifestyle club in the Fayetteville, North Carolina area with over 40,000 registered members. The club is currently rebuilding at a new 27,000-square-foot location targeting a summer 2026 reopening, with hotel takeover events held in the interim.

Johnson City, TN
Lifestyle Resort
Tennessee Temptations is a couples-focused lifestyle membership and ticketing platform based in Johnson City, Tennessee. The organization hosts private events and coordinates travel experiences including adult resort getaways and lifestyle cruises. Members can create profiles, purchase event tickets, and connect with others in the community through the online platform.

Desert Hot Springs, CA
Lifestyle Resort
Sea Mountain Inn is an adults-only clothing-optional lifestyle resort and spa in Desert Hot Springs, California, approximately ten minutes from Palm Springs International Airport. The property features 24-hour heated mineral water pools, whirlpools, a cedar sauna, spa and massage services, on-site dining, and guest rooms. The resort is open year-round and hosts regular themed lifestyle events for couples and singles.

Aurora, CO
Lifestyle Resort
Sitting behind an iron gate on East Colfax Avenue in Aurora — fifteen minutes from Denver International Airport — Mon Chalet is a 22-room adults-only fantasy motel that has been catering to lifestyle couples since the 1960s. Every suite wraps a king-sized bed in floor-to-ceiling mirrors and pipes twelve exclusive adult channels through a 4K TV; tiers run from Basic rooms with fireplaces and bubble lights up to Deluxe suites outfitted with in-room whirlpools, steam showers, the ceiling-hung 'Swing,' and the resort's signature sculptured 'Love Machine.' The decor leans unabashedly retro — think mirrored canopies, holographic glass panels etched with nudes, and moody LED lighting — but the rooms are well-maintained and unapologetically over the top. The main social hub is a heated, fully enclosed clothing-optional pool area housing a medium-sized pool, two hot tubs, and poolside lounging. Guests who book a suite have all-hours access; couples and single women can also purchase a standalone pool pass (daytime 11 am-4 pm for all; evenings 5 pm-5 am for couples and single women only — single men need a room at night). A colour-coded wristband system signals each guest's interests at a glance, keeping approaches low-pressure and consent front and centre. Reservations are made by phone only — no online booking engine — and a valid photo ID (driver's licence, passport, or state-issued ID) is required at check-in. Matinee stays run noon to 4 pm; overnight check-in is 6 pm with an 11 am check-out. Alcohol is permitted in the pool area in cans or plastic only — no glass. Cameras and phones are banned from the pool, and the gated property keeps the vibe secure and discreet despite the gritty stretch of Colfax outside.

Lansing, MI
Lifestyle Resort
Michigan Swing Place is a Lansing, Michigan lifestyle group built around recurring hotel takeover weekends rather than a fixed clubhouse: instead of running a standing venue, the group rents out a hotel for each event and turns it into a private party space for a few days at a time. It describes itself as having been started to give the Lansing swing community a second home, says it works alongside the area's other established clubs rather than competing with them, and draws members from across the United States rather than purely locally. Each takeover includes standard hotel rooms and suites along with a limited number of jacuzzi suites, plus access to the hotel's pool, and the group frames the atmosphere as comfortable and welcoming for both regulars and newcomers. An organizing crew is on-site from Friday through Sunday during event weekends to run the party and handle check-in. Recurring themed nights, including a jersey-themed meet-and-greet, a pajama-themed bar party, and a Little Red Dress mixer, run alongside free, lower-key meet-and-greet socials. Entry is oriented toward couples and single women: admission runs $25 for single women, $60 for couples, and $70 for single men, though single men are admitted only after being vetted directly by the organizers in advance, with no walk-up entry for unvetted single men. Meet-and-greet socials are free, with guests covering their own bar tab. First-time attendees complete a check-in form, and the specific hotel location for each event is disclosed only to ticket-holders after purchase, with guests asked not to share it publicly.

Brooklyn, MI
Lifestyle Resort
Founded in 1994, Northaven Resort has spent more than thirty years as the Midwests premier clothing-optional, adult-only, couples RV resort, tucked into nearly 50 acres of rolling hills in Michigans famous Irish Hills, an area also home to the Michigan International Speedway. The grounds are laced with scenic ponds and paved paths, and the heart of the resort centers on a pristine outdoor pool, the Sexy Sundries General Store, and the Hotel California Lounge, a 3,400-square-foot gathering space with eight flatscreens, a full club lighting and sound system, a 24-foot bar, a huge dance floor, pool table, shuffleboard, dart board, pinball, video games, and free Wi-Fi. Fitness-minded guests can keep up their routine at Buckles Barbells Gym or on the resorts two volleyball courts, two pickleball courts, and over a mile of walking paths. Northaven runs on a weekly rhythm of themed weekends, from 70s and pirate parties to Mardi Gras, luaus, and a Medieval-themed newbie weekend, with evenings built around bonfires, karaoke, dancing, and socializing in the lounge. Accommodations range from RV sites with full hookups to rental cabins/units and tent sites, and the resort also sells lots for those who want a permanent home base. Guest safety and privacy are treated as first priorities: a valid state or federal photo ID is required of everyone entering the property. First-time couples are encouraged to call ahead and book a free guided tour before committing to a stay. Reservations are handled exclusively by phone rather than email, since staff use the call to walk every guest through the resorts privacy and safety policies.