Upscale

On-premise Club

Est. 2004. Baltimore's premier on-premise lifestyle club. Black-owned and Women-owned. Changed local scene.

Off-premise Club

Club SINZ is a couples-focused adult nightclub and social club in Salisbury, Massachusetts, billing itself as New England's premier couples experience. The venue combines a physical nightclub with an online social network (SINZ.NET) where members can connect with other New England couples before attending in-person events. Annual membership to the online platform is available separately from club admission.

Illuminaughty LA

Los Angeles, CA

Curated Private Members Club

Illuminaughty LA is a members-only lifestyle event organizer operating in the Los Angeles area since 2022, hosting private swinger parties in luxury estates and upscale private residences. Events span Hollywood, Beverly Hills, Bel Air, and surrounding areas, with membership required through an application process. The club is part of the national Illuminaughty network operating in over 40 U.S. cities.

On-premise Club + Lodging

Eyz Wide Shut is an adult lifestyle nightclub and play venue located in Tampa, Florida, open Thursday through Sunday with a 21-and-older admission requirement. The club features a full bar, dance floor, and ten private themed rooms, with three group rooms reserved for couples and single women; single males may access group spaces only by female invitation. A dress code is enforced, and all rooms are stocked with fresh linens.

On-premise Club

Trapeze Club Atlanta is an on-premise adult lifestyle club located in Atlanta, Georgia, operating Wednesday through Sunday from 8 PM with a BYOB policy. The venue features playrooms, themed events, a cigar lounge, and upscale dining with rotating weekly menus and a carving station. Single males are welcome most nights; Saturdays are reserved for couples and single women only.

Illuminaughty Portland

Portland, OR

Curated Private Members Club

Illuminaughty Portland is the Portland, Oregon chapter of the national Illuminaughty lifestyle event network, which has operated since 2023. The organization hosts private lifestyle mixers and swinger parties for members in the Portland area. Membership requires an approved application, and members gain access to a mobile app and events across the national network.

On-premise Club

NYC's premier lifestyle club. Known for younger, attractive crowd. Very selective admission.

Event Organizer

Lux Velvet hosts lifestyle-friendly parties and events across Ottawa, catering to adventurous and flirtatious adults. Events range from themed dance parties to social gatherings, held at various venues around the city. Open to solo guests, couples, and groups.

On-premise Club

Complexe Luxuria is a libertin (swingers) club in Montreal hosting themed events on Friday and Saturday nights. The venue features a dance floor, social areas, and regular themed costume parties. Events are ticketed and include seasonal celebrations and guest appearances.

Illuminaughty Austin

Austin, TX

Private Invitation-Only Lifestyle Events

Illuminaughty Austin is a private, invitation-only lifestyle event organization serving the Austin, Texas area as part of a multi-city network. The organization hosts adult social events for couples and singles aged 21 to 49 who apply through a membership screening process. Members access event details and RSVP through a dedicated mobile app.

On-premise Club

Minglers Social Club is a BYOB lifestyle club in Daytona Beach, Florida, open Fridays from 8 PM to 2 AM and Saturdays from 8 PM to 4 AM. The venue hosts themed events weekly including karaoke nights and costume parties. Guests must be 21 and over with valid ID.

Colette Houston

Houston, TX

On-Premise Private Social Club

Colette Houston is an on-premise private social club in Houston, Texas, operating as part of the Colette Clubs chain. The venue offers a European-style adult lifestyle experience for couples and is presented as an upscale alternative to other Houston area clubs. Membership is required for access.

On-premise Club

Private members-only swingers club. Luxurious amenities.

Silk Lifestyle

Miami, FL

Event Organizer

Silk Lifestyle is a premium lifestyle events company in Miami, Florida, hosting invitation-only gatherings themed around house music and social mingling at upscale Miami Beach venues. Events are priced per couple, and applicants undergo a 24-to-48-hour review process before approval. The organization markets itself as Miami's most exclusive lifestyle community and offers referral incentives for members.

On-premise Club

The X Club is a lifestyle nightclub in Mississauga, Ontario, operating Friday and Saturday nights from 9 PM to 3 AM. The venue offers a dance floor, VIP bottle service, and multiple themed areas, with Saturdays reserved exclusively for couples and single women. Members must be 21 or older; a Newbie Night runs on the first Friday of each month with no membership required.

On-premise Club

On-Premise Private Members Lounge

The Fantasy Lounge is a private members' social club in Kansas City featuring vetted guests, an upscale atmosphere, and themed social events throughout the year. Events are ticketed with advance RSVP available online.

Hotel Takeover

Valentines in Niagara is an annual adults lifestyle convention held in February in Niagara Falls, Ontario, marketed as Canada's largest swingers convention. The multi-night hotel takeover event features themed parties, pool events, workshops on intimacy, burlesque entertainment, and designated play areas. Running since 2007, the event consistently sells out and draws attendees from across Canada and the United States.

Lifestyle Event Venue / Lounge

Described as Denver's finest lifestyle club, Sugar Lounge is an open-minded venue hosting a wide range of events in a safe, clean, and friendly environment.

Monde Ose

Toronto, Ontario

Event Organizer

Monde Osé is a Montreal-based lifestyle brand and event organizer producing theatrical erotic entertainment events, most notably the Royal Burlesque Ball held at venues such as Théâtre Rialto. Events feature local and international burlesque performers in an upscale, glamour-focused setting with a mandatory dress code and explicit consent guidelines for attendees. The organization also offers membership programs and a curated online community in both English and French.

On-premise Club

Club L is a lifestyle and swinging club in Montreal, Quebec, occupying over 7,200 square feet across multiple floors of a converted former credit union building. The venue includes a restaurant-lounge with chef-prepared meals, nine themed private bedrooms, and common play areas; a membership subscription is required for entry. Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for couples, single women, and accompanied men; Thursdays are open to all adults 18 and over.

Top Floor Club

New York, NY

Curated Play Party

Top Floor is an invitation-only erotic play party community based in New York City, operating from a two-floor penthouse with monitored play suites, a phone-free dance floor, and a dedicated aftercare lounge. Events include the Signature Weekend, MARKED (kink-focused), and BI SENSUAL gatherings, each staffed by trained consent guardians. STI testing within three months is required for all members, and a consent orientation is conducted at each event.

On-Premise Private Social Club

Austin's Colette location offering the same upscale lifestyle experience as other Colette clubs.

On-premise Club

Saints & Sinners Philly is an on-premise lifestyle club with two locations in Philadelphia, offering playrooms, lounge areas, common areas, and a dance floor. Regular events include Fishnet Fridays, Newbie Nights, and Kinky Karaoke, typically running 9 PM to 3 AM on weekends. The club operates through the roleplayphilly.com platform and is affiliated with the Modern Lifestyle network.

On-premise Club

Katrina Private Home is a members-only, on-premises lifestyle club centrally located in Vancouver, British Columbia, serving adults 21 and older. The club requires an application process for membership and admits couples and single women only. A strict consent policy is enforced, recording devices are prohibited, and condoms are required; no alcohol is permitted on the premises.

On-Premise Private Members-Only Lifestyle Lodge

Eros Knoxville is a private members-only lifestyle club in Knoxville, Tennessee. The club operates on a BYOB policy with no alcohol sold on-site, and all new members are required to complete an orientation tour by 11 PM on their first visit. Regular themed events run Friday nights, with early-arrival discounts for couples and complimentary entry for women before 10 PM.

Event Organizer

The Pendulum Society is a members-only adult lifestyle and kink club based in the Vancouver, British Columbia area, open to adults 19 and older. The venue features themed parties, semi-private playrooms, a saltwater inground pool, and a dungeon space with equipment, and also offers private event rentals and photo or video shoot bookings. All events are consent-based and inclusive of all genders and sexual orientations; sexual activity is never guaranteed.

Illuminaughty Denver

Denver, CO

Private Event Series / Curated Parties

Illuminaughty Denver is a consent-focused private lifestyle event series operating in Denver, Colorado, part of a national network spanning over 40 U.S. cities. The organization hosts monthly events ranging from casual cocktail mixers to private play parties, targeting couples and singles in their 20s, 30s, and beyond. Membership is application-based and a mobile app is available for members.

On-premise Bathhouse/Club

X Club Winnipeg is an adult lifestyle and social club spanning over 10,000 square feet across three floors at its Winnipeg, Manitoba location. The facility includes multiple play rooms, a hot tub room, sauna, steam room, and a range of locker and private room rentals priced per visit. Annual membership is available for couples and solo members and provides room reservations, event discounts, and reduced room rates.

Lifestyle Playground

Denver, CO

Private Event Series / Hotel Takeovers

Lifestyle Playground is a private lifestyle event organization based in Colorado, hosting events in Denver, Colorado Springs, and Thornton. The group offers a range of gatherings from casual coffee meetups to full hotel takeovers with themed rooms, as well as workshops on sexual wellness. The community is inclusive of ENM, polyamory, swinging, LGBTQ+, and BDSM members, and access requires a membership application.

On-Premise Private Members Club

Hush Lounge AZ is a private members-only lifestyle club in Phoenix, Arizona, open Thursday through Saturday. The venue features over seven specialty rooms plus main floor lounge areas, a DJ on Saturdays, and complimentary condoms and fresh towels; no alcohol is sold or served, but members may bring their own. Couples are the primary clientele, with single men admitted selectively based on event attendance.

Illuminaughty (San Francisco)

San Francisco, CA

Curated Private Members Club / Event Organizer

Illuminaughty San Francisco is the Bay Area chapter of the national Illuminaughty members-only lifestyle event network, which has operated across more than 40 U.S. cities since 2022. Events are held at private venues and require an approved membership application to attend. Members receive access to a mobile app, a referral program, and regional and national event calendars.

Colette Dallas

Dallas, TX

On-Premise Private Social Club

Colette Dallas is an on-premise couples lifestyle club in Dallas, Texas, operating as part of the Colette Clubs chain. The venue describes itself as the only European-style erotic couples club in the Dallas area. Membership is required for entry.

Illuminaughty Phoenix

Phoenix, AZ

Private Event Series / Curated Parties

Illuminaughty Phoenix is an upscale curated swinger lifestyle event series operating in Phoenix and Scottsdale, Arizona, active since 2023. The organization hosts members-only events for couples and singles, with an emphasis on sophisticated, consent-focused experiences. Membership requires a formal application, and members have access to an events calendar, referral programs, and community resources.

Club4Play

UNCERTAIN

Chicopee, MA

Event Organizer / Hotel Takeover

Lifestyle travel club. Annual Pool Party & Hotel Takeover among largest in New England.

House Party Organizer

Vancouver Velvet Club is a private, invitation-only luxury swingers house party organizer based in Vancouver, British Columbia, catering exclusively to couples and selected single women. Events are held in a full private residence with multiple activity rooms and overnight accommodations available for out-of-town guests. Attendance is by reservation via email only, and the club maintains no social media presence to ensure discretion.

Club Rendezvous (Club R)

Calgary, Alberta

On-premise Club

Club Rendezvous (Club R) is a members-only lifestyle and swinger club in Calgary, Alberta, widely regarded as Canada's longest-running private lifestyle club and Alberta's largest. The venue offers themed rooms, private play areas, a lounge, and regular Friday and Saturday events running from 9 PM to 3 AM, including themed nights and educational workshops. Membership is required for entry, and the club is open to couples, select singles, and ENM and polyamorous individuals.

Friction Parties

Washington, DC

Hotel Takeover Organizer

Friction Parties is a women-owned lifestyle hotel takeover event organizer operating in Washington DC, Philadelphia, and other cities nationwide. Membership is screening-based, requiring all attendees to meet appearance and hygiene standards, with new single women accepted only by referral from established couple members. Monthly themed events are BYOB, and the organization also coordinates lifestyle travel and cruise packages.

Colette New Orleans

New Orleans, LA

On-Premise Private Social Club

Colette New Orleans is an on-premise erotic couples club offering a European swinging experience in New Orleans. The venue is primarily couples-focused, with single guests admitted on select evenings only. Colette is one of the few established on-premise lifestyle clubs in the New Orleans area.

Nude Resort / Lifestyle Day & Night Club

Sea Mountain Spa is a clothing-optional nude resort and lifestyle club located minutes from the Las Vegas Strip and airport. The venue is open to couples and women only; single men are not permitted. Amenities include outdoor nude pools, hot tubs, cabanas, massage services, complimentary beverages and snacks, and a 24-hour dance lounge called the Dharma Club.

Clothing-optional Resort

Caliente Club and Resorts is a clothing-optional adults-only resort in Tampa, Florida offering condominiums, casitas, and hotel rooms for multi-night stays. The property features two pools with bars, two restaurants, a full nightclub with DJ service until 3 AM, a spa, and sports facilities. New guests are required to attend a one-hour membership introduction before qualifying for promotional rates.

Boutique Hotel Suite Party

Swingers Circle is a boutique hotel suite lifestyle party held weekly on Thursday nights in Las Vegas, operating on Las Vegas Boulevard near major Strip hotels. The event is restricted to couples and single women, with a maximum of 12 couples per session, making it one of the more intimate recurring play parties in the city. Guests are encouraged to arrive by 9:30 PM; BYOB is permitted and soft drinks, water, and snacks are provided.

Event Organizer / Hotel Takeover

Intimate Parties Group (IPG) is a lifestyle event organizer based in New York, hosting hotel takeover events primarily across the Northeast including New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, and New England. Events accommodate 150 to 200 couples, feature themed rooms, dance floors with DJs, indoor heated pools, and finger food, with a strict BYOB policy. Attendance is limited to couples and unescorted women aged 21 and older; a no-photography policy is enforced.

Club Joi

Los Angeles, CA

On-premise Club

Club Joi is a members-only on-premise swing club in downtown Los Angeles occupying 12,000 square feet with a nightclub atmosphere, themed playrooms, a dance floor, and shower facilities. The venue is open Friday and Saturday nights and welcomes couples and single women; single men are admitted only at select special events. Membership and an approved profile are required before purchasing tickets.

On-premise Club

NYX Lounge is an upscale on-premise lifestyle club in Oakville, Ontario, serving the Greater Toronto area. The venue features two play areas, a dance floor, and bottle service, open Friday and Saturday nights from 9 PM to 2 AM. Membership is required; couples, single women, and single men are welcome with varying entry fees.

Roaming On-premise

Woman-owned and operated. Roaming club using multiple venues.

On-premise Club

On-Premise Private Event Center

XCLUSIV Lifestyle (XL) is a members-only upscale lifestyle event center in the Houston, Texas area. The venue hosts themed parties including holiday and seasonal events, and draws couples and singles from Houston, Dallas, Austin, San Antonio, and New Orleans. Membership is required for venue access, and the club also partners with adult-oriented cruise lines and resort destinations.

Hotel Takeover

SOP Lifestyle Productions is a Canadian-based event production company specializing in lifestyle hotel takeovers, group cruises, and international travel experiences for the swinger and open community. Signature events include seasonal takeovers in Whistler and abroad, Virgin Voyages group sailings, and curated pop-up adventures in destinations such as Iceland. The organization welcomes singles, couples, and all experience levels, with a strong emphasis on enthusiastic and continuous consent.

Escapades New England

Providence, RI

Event Organizer

Escapades New England is a lifestyle event organizer based in Providence, Rhode Island, hosting regular couples-oriented parties in the Providence area with occasional events in Massachusetts. The organizers cap couple admission at $60–$80 per event and place emphasis on welcoming newcomers to the lifestyle. Signature annual events include a summer foam party described as the largest in New England and an erotic masquerade ball in the fall.

Swinger Cruise

One of most well-known adult-only, clothing-optional cruise companies.

On-premise Club

Created by people in the lifestyle, for the lifestyle. Themed events.

VIP Bliss

Miami Beach, FL

Event Organizer

VIP Bliss is a screened lifestyle event organization based in Florida, hosting private parties across Miami, Fort Lauderdale, West Palm Beach, Tampa, and Orlando. Attendance requires an application and vetting process, and events are accessible only to approved members through a private online portal. The organization emphasizes exclusivity and privacy in its event model.

On-Premise Private Lifestyle Club

Forbidden Omaha is a theme-centric lifestyle club and Nebraska's self-described premier lifestyle venue. The club hosts meet-and-greets and special events in a welcoming environment for open-minded adults, currently operating under new ownership with hours from 9 PM to 2 AM.

On-premise Club

Full buffet included. Actual nightclub atmosphere. Accessibility features.

Club Dalliance

Columbia, SC

On-premise Club

Club Dalliance is an on-premise lifestyle club located in Columbia, South Carolina, open on Saturday nights from 9pm to 2am.

On-premise Private Swingers Party

Twist is a private on-premise swingers party in San Francisco's North Beach neighborhood at 387 Bay Street. The BYOB venue features a dance floor with poles, lounge areas, and multiple play rooms, open Friday and Saturday from 10 PM to 4 AM. Saturdays are strictly couples-only; Fridays admit limited single men by application.

Event Organizer

Lavish Lifestyle Events (formerly Club Manor) is an upscale lifestyle event company run by the same team behind Long Island's premier off-premise swingers club. The group hosts RSVP-only themed parties at private venues in South Florida and New York, emphasizing crafted cocktails, curated music, and a drama-free atmosphere for couples and singles.

H&H Social Club (Heaven & Hell)

Portsmouth, NH

Event Organizer / Travel Club

H&H Social Club (Heaven and Hell) is a lifestyle event and travel club based in Manchester, New Hampshire. The organization hosts lifestyle-oriented social events and organizes adult travel experiences for its members.

On-premise Club

Trapeze Fort Lauderdale is an on-premise adult lifestyle club located in Tamarac, Florida, operating Wednesday through Sunday from 8 PM with BYOB policy. The venue features playrooms, themed events, a cigar lounge, and an upscale dining experience with rotating weekly menus. Single males are welcome most nights; Saturday is reserved for couples and single women only.

On-premise Club

Miami Velvet is a private adult lifestyle nightclub in Miami, Florida, spanning 20,000 square feet and claiming the title of Florida's largest on-premise swingers club. The club hosts events on Friday and Saturday nights plus monthly themed parties, and draws a membership base from across South Florida and internationally. A couples membership is waived for first-time visitors, though entry fees still apply, and a dress code is enforced.

Friction Carolina

Durham, NC

Hotel Takeover Organizer

Friction Carolina is a women-owned lifestyle hotel takeover event organizer operating in Raleigh and other cities across the country. Membership is screening-based, requiring all attendees to meet appearance and hygiene standards, with new single women accepted only by referral from established couple members. Monthly themed events run on a BYOB basis, and the organization also coordinates lifestyle travel and cruise packages.

Event Organizer

FuseX Social Club is a lifestyle community with chapters across the United States. The Atlanta chapter organizes social events and gatherings for open-minded adults in the greater Atlanta, Georgia area.

Lifestyle Resort & Spa

Oasis Estate Resort is a lifestyle resort and spa set on a 10-acre property in Houston, Texas. The venue offers all-inclusive weekend experiences combining spa services, formal dining, poolside parties, and adult social events in a gated estate setting. Prospective guests must apply for membership and receive approval before attending events.

On-premise Spa/Club

Oasis Aqualounge is a clothing-optional, water-themed private members club for adults 19 and over, located in a restored 19th-century mansion in downtown Toronto. The venue features a year-round heated outdoor pool, hot tub, sauna, two bars, and play areas spanning four floors. Solo men are admitted Sunday through Thursday; Fridays and Saturdays are reserved for women and couples only.

Scarlet Ranch

Littleton, CO

On-Premise Lifestyle Club / Ranch Venue

Scarlet Ranch is a large private lifestyle organization in the Denver, Colorado area, operating out of a 36,000 square foot facility called Squirrel Creek Lodge since 2003. The venue hosts over 100 themed events per year with attendance ranging from 200 to 2,200 guests, and a capacity of up to 2,500. Amenities include three bars (BYOB), a fine dining restaurant, dance stages, and an outdoor tipi with fire pit; events run Wednesday through Sunday.

Sea Mountain Inn Nude Resort & Spa

Desert Hot Springs, CA

Clothing-optional Lifestyle Resort

Sea Mountain Inn is an adults-only clothing-optional lifestyle resort and spa in Desert Hot Springs, California, approximately ten minutes from Palm Springs International Airport. The property features 24-hour heated mineral water pools, whirlpools, a cedar sauna, spa and massage services, on-site dining, and guest rooms. The resort is open year-round and hosts regular themed lifestyle events for couples and singles.

On-premise Club

Club Privata is a members-only lifestyle nightclub in Portland, Oregon, spanning 8,000 square feet across three levels with two full bars, a dining area, a VIP suite, and private and semi-private play spaces. A live DJ, dance floor with cage, and strictly enforced dress code contribute to the upscale atmosphere. Bottle service and VIP suite reservations are available, and membership is required for entry.